Hexagram 54 of 64
The Marrying Maiden 雷泽归妹
☳☱ Thunder over Lake
Unequal footing; wait for the right time.
Hexagram 54 is about uneven footing and timing. Its image is thunder above a lake, a young woman entering a union that is not yet balanced. It describes situations where the terms are uneven or the timing is wrong. It advises waiting for the right moment rather than moving forward while conditions are unfavorable.
Judgment
征凶,无攸利。
Setting out brings misfortune. Nothing is favorable.
Image
泽上有雷,归妹;君子以永终知敝。
Thunder over the lake: the marrying maiden. The noble person looks to lasting ends and knows where things go wrong.
The six lines
Read from the bottom line (the beginning) to the top line (the outcome). Each line gives the classical text, our English translation, and a plain-language reading.
初九:归妹以娣,跛能履,征吉。
A young woman goes to her new home as a junior companion. Like someone lame who can still walk, moving forward brings good fortune.
You may enter a situation in a supporting role with certain limits. It can still go well if you move within what you can manage.
九二:眇能视,利幽人之贞。
One-eyed, yet still able to see. Steadfastness suited to a quiet person is favorable.
You may see the situation only in part. A quiet, steady stance serves you better than a bold one.
六三:归妹以须,反归以娣。
A bride goes as a waiting attendant, then returns as a junior companion.
A role can shift in unexpected ways, and you may need to step back. Be honest about where you stand.
九四:归妹愆期,迟归有时。
The bride's marriage is delayed; a late arrival has its own time.
A delay can be frustrating, but waiting is not failure. With patience, the timing may improve.
六五:帝乙归妹,其君之袂,不如其娣之袂良,月几望,吉。
When King Yi gave his daughter in marriage, her sleeves were no finer than those of her junior companion. The moon is nearly full. Good fortune.
Appearances can mislead. Simple, sincere conduct counts for more than fine display.
上六:女承筐无实,士刲羊无血,无攸利。
A woman holds an empty basket; a man slaughters a sheep without blood. Nothing is favorable.
An effort that looks full may be empty inside. Check that the commitments are real before you invest yourself.
In practice
Love and relationships
Relationships that start unevenly, or with unclear expectations, need honest conversation before commitment. Wait until both people agree on the terms, since pressure does not create balance.
Work and decisions
A role with unequal terms calls for clear agreements on responsibility, pay, and timing. Do not take a position until the expectations are written down.
Money
Be cautious with arrangements where one side carries more risk. Avoid committing money until the terms are clear and fair to you.
How to use this reading
Use this reading when an arrangement feels uneven or the timing seems off and you want to know whether to proceed. Ask: are the terms clear and fair, and is this the right moment?
New to the method? Start with the six-line basics.
For cultural reflection only. This is not a prediction guarantee or professional advice.